As a Christian, we need to be willing to let go of the past and forgive those who have wronged us. But forgiveness is easier said than done. As social creatures, our interactions and relationships with others are integral to future relationships and agreements. When we find forgiveness to be tough—or even seemingly impossible— we can always turn to our bulwark of strength, the Holy Bible, for encouragement. Here’s what it has to say about forgiveness:
It’s a directive of Jesus Himself
Even if they sin against you seven times in a day and seven times come back to you saying ‘I repent,’ you must forgive them. (Luke 17:4)
Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? Up to seven times?” Jesus answered, “I tell you, not seven times, but seventy-seven times.” (Matthew 18:21-22)
With Christ as our master, we should try each and every day to live by his orders. Even though we might not fully understand “why”, be assured that everything he says has a reason. If we are to live in a Christ-like manner, this means working not only to turn away from our own sins, but also unconditionally forgiving the sins of those who wrong us. As Jesus tells Peter in the above quote, there is no upper limit to the number of “forgiveness passes” you can issue to a fellow human. That “77” isn’t a final number, but rather an illustration that Jesus used to show the boundlessness of forgiveness. Similarly, in Luke, he makes the point that we should be welcoming our transgressors back.
It is a requisite for our own forgiveness
For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. (Matthew: 6:14)
If we want to be forgiven, it is clear that we must forgive others. This also fits into the paradigm of living by the Supreme Commandment: “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” When we inevitably sin and do wrong to our fellow man, wouldn’t you too want to be forgiven? Don’t hold others to a double standard, then expect your forgiveness when you slip up.
Judgement is divine
There is only one Lawgiver and Judge, the one who is able to save and destroy. But you–who are you to judge your neighbor?” (James 4:12)
Many times we ask ourselves, “if I am to forgive unconditionally, who will pass judgement? If I am constantly offended, at which point to I retaliate?” This, again, is a question that is central to human nature. But the words of James remind us that there is only one judge, God Himself. No one is perfect, and thusly we don’t have the position to stand on higher ground and condemn our peers. If someone keeps transgressing, forgive them— God will mete out the appropriate retribution.
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